Disclaimer: This does not imply with one-night stands nor friends with benefits. If you want to think of it this way, then I express no concern whatsoever - though I would appreciate any arguments here and there since this is only my say about a special form of relationship.
I would like you to take a moment by looking at the title of this entry or maybe yet, the image after my statement, because there is something speaking for itself while you decide to contemplate whether you had yourself involved in this position. If you have not, well, at least picture yourself in this relationship where you had no idea if you still love this person while this person puts yourself in a vulnerable state endlessly and you beat yourself about it whether this person should still have a place in your heart or not? Would you keep dating your current significant other if he/she is repetitively abusing your imperfections and making you do what they have in say?
Why do we have these in the world? I express much sympathy how one is terribly bruised if the other fellow does not see past through their sorrow limped heart. How come two parties are willing stay together when they know for sure that they are not satisfied? Isn't the point of having a relationship having happiness and loving each other unconditionally. There isn't an "I don't know if they are truly the ones to make me happy." You either know or you don't. They shouldn't be the ones to make you feel like damn shit and you are feeling guilty about something you think you did wrong where there really isn't anything you did to cause a chaotic mess. You got yourselves into a relationshit and this isn’t something you want to have if you plan on having a long-term relationship.
If you find yourself in a relationshit and you are severely unhappy with yourself being with your current lover, I suggest you get out of that miserable bottomless pit as soon as you can, or if I were speaking to you right this second....... NOW!!!
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| Are you in a relationshit? |
I would like you to take a moment by looking at the title of this entry or maybe yet, the image after my statement, because there is something speaking for itself while you decide to contemplate whether you had yourself involved in this position. If you have not, well, at least picture yourself in this relationship where you had no idea if you still love this person while this person puts yourself in a vulnerable state endlessly and you beat yourself about it whether this person should still have a place in your heart or not? Would you keep dating your current significant other if he/she is repetitively abusing your imperfections and making you do what they have in say?
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| Can anyone even relate to this diagram? |
Why do we have these in the world? I express much sympathy how one is terribly bruised if the other fellow does not see past through their sorrow limped heart. How come two parties are willing stay together when they know for sure that they are not satisfied? Isn't the point of having a relationship having happiness and loving each other unconditionally. There isn't an "I don't know if they are truly the ones to make me happy." You either know or you don't. They shouldn't be the ones to make you feel like damn shit and you are feeling guilty about something you think you did wrong where there really isn't anything you did to cause a chaotic mess. You got yourselves into a relationshit and this isn’t something you want to have if you plan on having a long-term relationship.
If you find yourself in a relationshit and you are severely unhappy with yourself being with your current lover, I suggest you get out of that miserable bottomless pit as soon as you can, or if I were speaking to you right this second....... NOW!!!
Find someone who makes you happy and fully understands you. Someone who you won't beat yourself over when nothing is your fault. Find someone who will always be by your side, even if he is willing to take up your shit---especially when we PMS. If this person can pinky promise, this person is a keeper. If they are not willing to do all of this, then there is always someone else that replace their spot in your heart in a matter of time. You may develop some sentimental feelings over time, but once this person is out of the picture. I could guarantee that you will be happier than ever and he/she is just another chapter stuck a previous fairytale followed from a cliffhanger. Remember, you are worth so much more and you deserve the best attention needed. :)
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