Today's Standards

They have so many different standards, and some of them are pointless enough to not define a guy. The standards are all in the wrong places.  However, the standards they want in men are ‘totes’ out of the norm. Some “requirements” like, looking for someone that is strictly in the medical field and hoping that their dream guy is a physician who happens to be at least 6’6 because 6’5.5 isn’t going to cut it! What some females may know that men also have standards. But there this goes the other way around because when men talk about their standards in women, they are generalized as superficial. But when women speak for the same scenario, it’s normal. Though some can come off as shallow and it varies from person to person.  That is just how I see it where I am from and maybe you may have different views and that is cool too. It is okay to have standards, but please make them realistic enough to know that you are not the finickiest person when you decide to wander around looking for your dragon boy. By definition, if you really choose to be picky with your standards, just be sure it will follow up through how it will help you find your ideal beloved. If you try to find someone who aims to get their Doctorate’s in Philosophy and you want to be an unemployed bum for the rest of your life, you need to question yourself first. But I could think of if you and the other party have been best friends since middle school and perhaps it is time to give this relationship a chance to figure out where you guys stand. Also, almost every girl I encountered wants their love to be like how you see in standardized fairytales. You know what else?  Korean dramas. Omg. My sister’s eyes are cemented-attached to the computer screen because Korean dramas have mesmerized her with preposterous visual concepts that are believed how every Asian girl wants to accept as true.  I don’t understand why girls fantasize about a fairytale love story. It isn’t going to happen unless you guys want to arrange a scenario and renovate the scene out, but it won’t be that distinct whimsical dream.  We are at reality at its finest. If you want a love pertaining to your own standards, make sure you meet them before you judge anyone else.